We were sitting at a refreshment stand at Umaid Bhawan
palace in Jodhpur. We’d done the tour of the palace museum, and the hoi poloi aren’t
allowed in the main section, which is a now a Taj hotel that hosts jet-setters and the very rich. So, being
around mid-day and hot, C and I found some shade and had a seat. C enjoyed an
ice cream cone, and I sipped on a box of cold apple drink (pure juice not
available). I saw a small girl run free from her mother along the dusty path
into the sitting area, and I observed the sense of exhilaration in the child’s
face as she ran from mom for a short way. In a sort-of Proustian moment,
perhaps triggered by a headline in the NYT earlier in the day about the 100th
anniversary of the publication of Swann’s
Way, and having earlierobserved the two well to-to-do kids at the guest house where we stayed, I thought
back on my childhood.
I quickly brought C into my reverie as I sat there. In the 1950s and
early 1960s in small town Shenandoah, Iowa, we had a pretty idyllic time. Compared
to the packs of unattended youngsters we
sometimes see here and the well-to-do and very sheltered (and isolated) kids we
see here, or the hyper-programmed kids in the U.S., I think that we had it
pretty good. We both recalled kid-organized games of kick-the-can, halted
temporarily by calls of “car!” to clear the street, and then back at it until it was completely dark. Kids
of most ages (grade school) played. In the park behind our house, endless
baseball games were ongoing. I was a horrible baseball player, but I played. The
creek running between the park and the highway was more alluring (and
forbidden), but exploring the creek was a continuing adventure. Standing under
the wooden plank bridge when a car passed over provided quite the audio
entertainment.
After moving to 6th Avenue before third grade, I
was now within easy biking distance of the baseball park (mornings) and the
swimming pool (afternoons). My friends and I were almost amphibious during the
summers. Swimming lessons; endless hours playing tag; jumping and diving off
the raft; shooting headfirst down the big slide; and, eventually, after having
swam the width of our very large pool, going to the deep end to use the boards:
hour upon hour of fun and freedom. C reported the same experiences: mornings
with her brother to the baseball field by bike and afternoons by bike to the
pool. Parents were absent, unless we enjoyed the treat of an evening swim with
the parents and siblings under the lights. I think that both of us have these
distinct images of our respective fathers in swimming trunks, pale, skinny legs
revealed.
Of course, riding our bikes to Sportsman Park, which contained
both the baseball fields and the swimming pool, provided its own adventures. The
most exotic, both C and I agreed, was the Henry Fields building and the exotic
shop inside. For a long time neither of us realized the hidden treasures
inside. (By the way, this occurred quite independently of one another; we knew
of the other’s existence, but neither was of any consequence to the other. Interest
comes in junior high, but that’s a separate story.) The exterior of the building
gave some clue to its exotic contents, as it consisted of a series of archways
that one could walk or ride one’s bike under (provided some welcome shade). The
arches and yellowish color of the building gave it a vaguely Spanish look,
which, other than some seasonal Mexican migrant workers in the summer, seemed
quite apart from the rest of the town. However, the unique façade also signaled
a treasure inside a small store with a soda fountain and some exotic looking
items, including live birds. Alas, other than the birds, I have no recollection
of the particulars that created the exotic ambiance, only the certain feeling that
this was indeed a hidden treasure. C’s recollection comported with mine. She remembers
that she and her younger brother, having no spending money, ordered water from
the fountain until told to scram. They too, had discovered the hidden cove.
With our bikes, my friends and I could discover exotic
locales at our whim. A large pile of sand by the railroad tracks served as a
location of interest for several days when we found that we could grade roads and
dig caves with our hands and then watch them disappear as the sand collapsed.
Another time, my friend persuaded me to explore and picnic at Rose Hill, the
local cemetery. Sure enough, on the edge of town, overlooking the broad river valley,
with the graves of generations, including those of my grandparents and other
ancestors, proved a fertile world for exploration—and a very pleasant picnic
spot (two or three decades before I learned about the rural cemetery movement
and that this wasn’t as bizarre an ideas as I’d thought at the time). Further,
the cemetery lies east of Center Street, and it serves as a dividing line of
sorts in the town. Having lived on the west side all my life, this was an
unexplored area, and thus a completely new area in which to wander and explore.
Now, watching the little girl back at the refreshment,
having been corralled by her mother, C and I decided that we’d had it pretty
good. Perfect? No. A nostalgic view? Of course, to some extent. But when she’s
a little older, I hope that little girl enjoys some similar adventures.